Q- Are there really a lot of Russian and Ukrainian mail-order brides
who want marry foreigners and start a family with them?
A- There are indeed
Russian and Ukrainian women who are open to marrying foreigners and
starting a family. However, that doesn't mean these women are for sale or
that men can accurately order a bride. Men must still be charming and have
something to offer as a potential husband. What many men think of as "mail
order bride" sites are actually just a marriage agencies and dating sites
catering to men/women who want to meet singles from different areas of the
world. Unfortunately some of these services are scam, but many are not.
Q- What are the
typical mistakes when dating a Belarus, Russian or Ukrainian girls?
A- The typical mistakes
of men are: not bringing flowers on the first date or meeting, forgetting
about signs of attention, not being open, being very serious, forgetting
to show sense of humor. These girls enjoy when a man makes them laugh.
Q- Do Russian and
Ukrainian women only go after white foreigners or Latino, black etc. as
A- Russian and
Ukrainian woman don't go for foreigners, they go for someone they like as
who they are.
Q- Why are some
women looking for a man much older than themselves?
A- It is not uncommon
for Ukrainian and Russian women to marry older men, although there are
limits. If you are 40, you might be hard-pressed to find an 18-year-old
girl, but 24-28 years old is ok. Keep in mind that every woman has her own
standards. Some women don’t mind a big age difference (as long as the man
is healthy), while others do. They usually indicate their age preference
in their profiles.
Q- Why do Ukrainian
women despise local men? I heard its because of prevalent alcoholism among
males there and also because social norms in Ukraine give men the right to
make their wives serve them as they please. Is that true?
A- Ukrainian women
don't despise Ukrainian men. That's a myth.
Q- What traits
interest Russian and Ukrainian women?
A- Ukrainian and
Russian women like a strong shoulder to lean against. If you are brave ,
self-confident man with serious intentions, you have all the chances to
win a woman’s heart. Did we mention that they also like kind, tender and
Q- Do these ladies
expect a man to move to Ukraine/Russia or will be willing to move abroad?
A- Russian and
Ukrainian women are ready to relocate if they find a suitable partner. If
there is no clear indication of the country of residence in a woman's
profile for a potential husband, it means she will consider a man from any
country (of course if he meets her other requirements).
Q- I heard that it
is widely accepted in Russian culture for husbands to have mistresses?
A- We don't know were
you got that from. No Russian woman would allow their husband to "go out"
with someone else.
Q- I found the lady
I am communicated with has been reported as a scam. Can this be a mistake?
A- If you found your
woman's name being blacklisted, do not automatically suppose that she is a
scammer. There are quite a lot of things that you need to take into
- It is possible, that
there are more than one woman with certain first and last name. It is even
possible that there could be 9 different Elena Ivanova living in one city.
Your woman may have nothing to do with a scammer who happened to have the
same name and surname.
- Read the scam report
first. Is there any objective evidence of a scam being presented? Or does
it sound more like some unhappy man reported her because she didn’t
appreciate his attention enough?
If the report presents
some real evidence of a scam, then you possibly need to take it seriously
and start verifying your woman’s information as soon as possible.