Body language: Non-verbal signs and gestures of women

Wink, licking lips, eyebrow or smile. Non-verbal is what we have in our subconscious. And it gives us information before we even have time to think about it.

Benjamin Leunen, a writer, for example, claims that about 94% of the information we get is by reading non-verbal characters. And only 6% of the information is verbal.

Since childhood, we have been learning to understand each other without words: gestures, facial expressions, intonations, looks, postures, touches, movements. And we constantly use this knowledge, but not always and not everyone is aware of it. It happens unconsciously.

Confusion and stiffness passes - and we can tell the most intimate things to an absolutely stranger. Was it like that? Write in the comments!

While male and female psychology have a lot of differences. Neverbalica is similar in many ways to both sexes. However, it is very often impossible for a man to understand a woman.
Today she is mainly mastered by alphones and pickups. To manipulate, you need to know the "victim" and to anticipate her thoughts as replicas of actors in the "Titanic" after a hundredth session.

So they use different approaches in combination with psychological pressure, change the tactics of communication in time and always remain in the plus.

Many men leave this topic aside and for nothing. What is wrong with learning to understand what your woman wants, sometimes even without words?

This is useful. It is necessary. And a man also has a good understanding of his woman's condition, so that the relationship becomes stronger and develops. Here the question is not so much the ability to read on the face, but in order to catch the right moment.
Let's see what the most basic non-verbal signs and gestures tell the man what you think.

1. Flirting

A useful skill is to understand when a girl is flirting, interested in getting acquainted, in a man and in his initiative. This will help to avoid misunderstandings and tell you in which direction to move.

The most interesting thing is that when a girl flirts, she tries to please a man and show herself.

Open flirting without any doubts and constraint - a direct look with a light open smile. It lasts literally a second, just as long as it would take for a man to count it.

After that, a lot of women look down as if they were shy.

In addition, a woman can still fix a strand of hair that was accidentally knocked out of her hair, with a light, easy movement, get better or spin around the mirror.

If a woman touches her neck or wrists, drives her finger over a glass or twists it by holding the leg, she is a sure sign that she likes the man.

And if a woman also sits, slightly tilting the body in his bent or turned in his direction - there is no doubt at all.

2. Sadness

Very often, women complain about the lack of sympathy and support, the lack of comfort from the male side, when necessary.

It's one thing to learn to tell a man how you feel. It's another thing to watch a woman get offended and remember the moments.

In order for a man to help and support in time, he needs to understand when a girl is in sorrow. The reasons can be quite different, but it is the manifestations that are important.

If a woman cries out, she's definitely sad (joke).

In fact, it is very easy to recognize a person who is upset: the lowered corners of the lips, lifeless apathetic look (sometimes with a focus on one point), frowned eyebrows, lowered shoulders or literally slouchy.

3. Happiness

Is the woman happy with you? See how she behaves in your presence. Suddenly something needs to be fixed, and he does not even pay attention.

A woman is happy if she has glowing eyes, she is calm and often smiles openly (especially when she looks at her man). Her movements are energetic and confident, and her facial expressions are lively and emotional.

Separate nuance, posture. A confident and lucky woman walks with her back flat, her head reaching for the sun.

Psychosomatics often associate this with the fact that a person who does not slouch, does not feel the "severity of the problem" on his shoulders. Not because he lives easily, but because he does not perceive them as a disaster.

4. Interest.

If a girl isn't interested in a man, and he keeps on charming her, it ends in failure. It is very easy for a man to understand that she is not interesting.

If a woman doesn't look away or doesn't look at a man at all, turns away or turns her body towards the nearest door (yes, there are also such nuances) - she wants to leave and isn't interested in acquaintance.

If a woman doesn't respond with a smile, the chances of a successful acquaintance are minimal.

A slight slouch, a wandering look, a lowered head, and a revealing relaxation are signs of a loss of interest in a man. Doesn't look into the eyes for a long time or often looks outward.

The girl turns her body aside, crosses her arms, puts some object between you and clamps it, as if taking a defensive pose.

5. Stress

Understanding when a girl is worried about something will help a man to take the initiative at the right moment and take the situation into his own hands, to demonstrate masculinity and strength. When a girl is worried or stressed, she blinks more often.

Even at such moments, fine motor skills are activated: in stressful situations, a woman can not just fix her hairline, but simply twist it rhythmically on her finger, for example.

Alternatively, folding tubes or tearing paper towels, breaking toothpicks or skewers for snacks. Speaking of mimicry, it is very common for women to press their lips with increased emotional tension.

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Watch her face.

Men's role in building relationships is often diminished. And it is not only women who need to work on relationships.

Often all kinds of women's trainings are perceived by men as bayonets, although it would be useful for them to understand their beloved woman better.

Relationships are built between two people, which means that both should work on their quality. Everyone has their own area of responsibility, but this does not exclude participation.

Ideal couples are those in which both partners are interested in each other's lives and feelings. This allows us to bypass sharp corners and avoid manipulation of the relationship.

So don't forget the look on your face. Even the phrase: "I love you" can lose all meaning if a person takes his or her eyes away.