How to overcome your shyness with women: A dating guide for shy men

Women in general are attracted to confident and avoid shy men. If you’re looking for a woman for dating, love or marriage and you are very shy. But you are willing to fix your emotional weakness then our below tips and information will help you.

- Focus on your body language: increase your self-assurance and confidence before you even go out to a dating. Stand in a powerful posture, smile, chin slightly up and shoulders back. Remember mastering a good body language can make you feel more psychologically prepared, positive and confident.

As a shy man, you possibly have a little voice inside you telling you you’re not good enough. Just avoid this negative thinking.

- If you are an introverted or shy man then keep in mind that there is nothing to be ashamed of. Remember shyness can be lovable and attractive to some girls. Many women love shy men, particularly those who have been cheated, hurt and betrayed by confident men. These women will be attracted to your kindness and modesty.

Most men perceive that women expect men to be confident and suave.

- If you are on the street and a girl looks at you, looks away and smiles. Then this is a sign that she is interested in you and open to being approached. In this case you should definitely attract her with your confidence by approaching her, starting a conversation and stop worrying about being rejected.

Approaching girls in a positive, relaxed and confident way naturally make them feel some level of attraction for you.

- Most men make womens' rejection and response to them mean something about them personally. If a strange woman acts cold to them and they make it mean something wrong about them as a man.

When women reject men, it actually has nothing to do with men. It wasn't them they rejected It was just those men's approach.

So if you were rejected by a woman you should be grateful for her reaction whether negative or positive and never ever take it personal.

- You have to pay attention. Watch a woman and listen to her. You will soon know if she is interested in you or not. A woman constantly gives you signals about her level of attraction to you.

- When a girl see a man she is interested in she will usually instinctively fix her clothes or hair in some other way.

- If you generally avoid the mirror, then looking at yourself carefully could expose a lot about how women see you. You might not have even noticed that your body language is revealing your anxious and nervousness. Do some practice in front of the mirror standing confidently and speaking to a woman with a smile.

In real life, women hook up with confident men, even if the man is short, ugly, fat or bald.

- Knowing how women are likely to react in various circumstances and situations help shy men decide on the ideal time to approach these women.

- Compliment a woman. There’s nothing that attract a woman like a nice compliment. When you see a woman you like, think of something pleasant to say about her look, like her clothing choice, hairstyle, etc. Women love to feel attractive and welcome it when men notice it.

- Always keep in mind that first of all, dating is a pleasure and a fun. Take the stress, anxiety and pressure off yourself before approaching a woman. Remember this is not a job interview. If this woman didn’t like you or rejected you, it’s not the end of the world. It is just a free learning experience you.